Should I Send My Child To US For Studies

By Madhurie Singh, June 06, 2025

Should Indian Parents Send Children To US For Studies

This question is on the mind of almost every Indian parent today—and with good reason. After spending lakhs on coaching, exams, and applications, many families now face uncertainty due to suspended U.S. student visas, deportations, and political unpredictability under the Trump administration. The dream that once felt prestigious now feels risky.

🎓 This Isn’t Just a Dream Anymore—It’s a Dilemma

Last weekend, my cousin’s mom called me in tears. Her son got into a great U.S. university. But instead of joy, she felt fear.She asked, “Should I send him now or wait?”

You might be asking the same thing.And the truth is—this is not the same U.S. we trusted just a year ago.

🚨 Here’s Why Indian Parents Are Rethinking the US in 2025

The number of red flags is growing. If you’re not keeping up with the headlines, here’s a quick summary:

U.S. student visa interviews are paused indefinitely. Immigration officers now scan students’ social media history.

Indian Student with full scholarship denied US VISA

Students with valid visas are being turned away at airports.

Even Harvard is under restriction—new international students can’t join.

🔗 News Link

Would you risk your child’s peace of mind—or ₹30 lakhs—on that?

💬 Real Parents Like You Are Making Hard Choices

You’re not the only one hesitating. These families did too:

1. Brijesh from Surat

“We were ready to send him. But when the visa appointment disappeared, we pulled the plug.”

2. Subash (Ahmedabad Consultant)

His U.S.-bound students dropped from 100 to just 10 this year.

3. Avi Already in the U.S., he’s looking for work in Canada because he fears losing his visa.

4. My neighbor’s niece

She got deported on arrival. Her interview “sounded suspicious,” they said.

5. University of Houston student group

They formed a peer network after multiple Indian students mysteriously vanished.

🤔 Is the US Still a Safe Bet?

Let’s shift the question slightly.

Instead of “Should I send my child to the U.S.?”, ask:
👉 “Does the U.S. still offer a safe, stable future for my child?”

As of today, my honest answer is: not right now.

If you haven’t done the visa interview yet, I’d hold off. A one-year wait is better than rushing into uncertainty. If I have to predict, I would say, don’t ever.

🌍 You Have Stronger, Safer Study Abroad Options

The world has changed—and you have better choices. Here are the top five countries Indian students are choosing in 2025:

🇨🇦 Canada

Post-study work permit (PGWP)

Easy PR routeSafe and welcoming environment

🇬🇧 United Kingdom

3-year degrees save money and time

2-year post-study work visa

🇩🇪 Germany

Tuition-free educationEnglish-language STEM programs

Practical job-focused learning🇸🇬 Singapore

Culturally familiar

Top-ranked universities

Industry exposure

🇦🇺 Australia

Streamlined student visas

Globally respected degrees

High standard of living.

⚠️ Be Wary of Agents Saying “All Is Normal”

I’ve seen it too often. Parents get told, “Visas will come through,” or “Book the flight now.”

But agents don’t control embassy closures. And they won’t refund you if things go wrong.

One mother lost ₹1.2 lakhs in non-refundable bookings. Her son never got the visa.

Please don’t fall for pressure tactics.

📢 Indian Officials Are Concerned Too

Even the Indian government has stepped in. The MEA has requested that U.S. officials treat Indian students fairly.

🔗 MEA Statement

Congressman Ro Khanna, whose parents are from India, criticized Trump’s ban. He reminded the U.S. that international students bring in over $44 billion annually.

🔗 See his full response

✅ Let’s Do a Quick Gut-Check Together

Here’s how I help parents make clearer decisions:

Ask Yourself This

🟢 Green Light 🔴 Red Flag

Has your child’s visa already been approved?

✅ Yes ❌ No

Have you planned a backup country option?

✅ Yes ❌ No

Can you afford the cost without loans?

✅ Yes ❌ No

Are you following embassy updates directly?

✅ Yes ❌ No

If you’ve checked more red flags than green lights, it’s time to pause.

💭 If I Were You…I’d hold off on sending my child to the U.S. this year.I’d use the next few months to explore better opportunities. Canada, the U.K., and Germany aren’t “second options”—they’re stable, respected, and smart alternatives. This isn’t about giving up. It’s about protecting your child from unnecessary risk.

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