Will I love my second child same as my first one?

By Madhurie Singh, October 27, 2012

What a question? How can you even think of this? Will I love my second child as much as my first one?

I dunno about any of you parents, but I was really worried when I conceived my second child.

My thoughts would invariably wander especially in the dark silenced nights if this was a right decision. Will I be able to give the same amount of love and care to my second child as much I have for the first one!

I was also worried if my second child will be equally intelligent as the first one! I was worried about the normal and healthy baby…

But its normal to think and worry all of the above and I realized I was not alone, its just that no one talked about it much. 

A close firend had decided not to go for a second child for the same reason that was worrying me. 

But after my second child came in our lives, nothing reduced my love for the first baby or changed anything negatively. On the contrary, my love multiplied, if I may be allowed to express it in pure science. 

Love can only multipy. Children bring love along with them. 

Attention can divided as it based on the time and energy you have. 

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